Final Salute: A Story Of Unfinished Lives—Part Five Of Five
Sunday, May 30, 2010
Remember the glory of the spirit, the valor and sacrifice of our fellow countrymen. This Memorial Day, I want to share with you five sobering stories from Jim Sheeler’s Pulitzer Prize winning book, Final Salute: A Story Of Unfinished Lives.The Knock
Every door is different. Some are ornately hand-carved hardwood, some are hollow tin. Some are protected by elaborate security systems, some by flapping screens. The doors are all that stand between a family and the message.
For Major Steve Beck it starts with a knock or a ring of the doorbell—a simple act, really, with the power to shatter a soul.
Marines are trained to kill. They are known for their blank stare and an allegiance to their unofficial motto, “No greater friend, no worse enemy.” Since 2003, as the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan intensified, Marines such as Major Beck found themselves catapulted into a duty they never trained for—a mission without weapons.
As a Marine, the forty-year-old had already won accolades as the most accomplished marksman of his class. He later earned two master’s degrees in a quest to become a leader on the battlefield. He had hoped to deploy during the Persian Gulf War but was still in training when the conflict ended. He then trained and led Marines in preparations in Somalia, Bosnia, and Haiti at the Marine Ground Task Force Training Command in Twenty-Nine Palms, California. During the attacks of September 11, 2001, he served as a recruiter for the war he ached to join. During the initial invasion of Iraq, he was finishing his term at the Air Command and Staff College, hoping to transfer quickly to a deploying unit. Instead, he was sent to Colorado where he once again trained Marine reservists for war, expecting that he would soon join them.
He found himself faced with an assignment that starts with long walk to a stranger’s porch and an outstretched hand sheathed in a soft white glove. It continues with a promise stepped in the history of the Corps that most people associate only with the battlefield: Never leave a Marine behind.
In combat, men have taken bullets while retrieving their comrades’ bodies, knowing that the dead Marine would have done the same for them. It is a tradition instilled in boot camp where Marines are ingrained with 230 [now 234] years of history and the sacrifices of tens of thousands of lives.
For Major Beck—and thousands of men and women throughout the world tasked with notification duty—it is a promise that holds long after the dead return home.
Ask a Marine. Even the “grunts” on the front lines say they would rather be in the danger zone in Iraq than to have to stand on that porch. From the beginning, Major Beck decided, if he was going to have to do it, he would do it his way, the way he would want it done if he were the one in the casket.
Over the next two years and through several notifications, Beck made a point of learning each dead Marine’s name and nickname. He touched the toys they grew up with and read the letters they wrote home. He held grieving mothers in long embraces, absorbing their muffled cries into the dark blue shoulder of his uniform. Sometimes he returned to his own family and cried in the dark.
When he first donned the Marine uniform, Steve Beck had never heard the term casualty assistance calls officer. He certainly never expected to serve as one. As it turned out, it would become the most important mission of his life.
As Veteran’s Day slid into another blank date on the calendar, the Marines drove through the snowy streets of the Laramie neighborhood. The house found them first, beckoning with the brightest porch lights and biggest address numbers on the block. Inside the SUV, the major played out scenarios with the gunnery sergeant as if they were headed into battle. What if the parents aren’t home? What if they become aggressive? What if they break down? What if, what if, what if?
The major pulled to the curb and cut his headlights. He looked at the gunnery sergeant. Then the two men climbed out of the truck, walked on the untouched powder and heard the soft snow crunch.
From then on every step would leave footprints.
In the basement of their home in Laramie, Kyle Burns’s parents didn’t hear the doorbell. The couple had spent most of the snowy night trying to set up a new television. It was nearly 1:00 A.M. when the dog leaped into a barking frenzy. Kyle’s mother climbed the stairs from the basement, looked out the window and saw the two Marines on the frozen porch.
Go away! She thought. Get the hell away from here! Then she started screaming.
While each door is different, the scenes inside are almost always the same. “The curtains pull away. They come to the door. And they know. The always know,” said Major Beck. “You can almost hear the blood run out of their body and their heart hit the floor. It’s not the blood as much as their soul. Something sinks. I’ve never seen that except when someone dies. And I’ve seen a lot of death.”
“They’re falling—either literally or figuratively—and you have to catch them. In this business, I can’t save a life. All I can do is catch the family while they’re falling.”
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